HOW FAR CAN RURAL GIRLS TRAVEL IN AFRICA SCHOOLS?
An Article by Edward Adeti, Daily Dispatch’s Correspondent for Upper East, Ghana .
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Edward Adeti |
One of my every-day major encounters in rural newsgathering in Africa is the common sight of girls who, after dropping prematurely from the academic ladder and suffering a sudden “academic demise” at the elementary school stage, roam in the hamlets as pregnant timid “ghosts”.
Some months after, the same girls appear in the busy streets with malnourished babies strapped to their bare backs in the steaming Sun. Those hungry naked babies have no fathers who should hold their hands at sunrise across the road to any nearby early childhood school to begin to learn some quality ABC of life or bring them back home at sunset. Rural single parenting, coated with the rags of a die-hard crippling poverty, accounts for the ever-growing measure of indiscipline and crime that robs Africa of what outweighs the uncounted tons of mineral stones taken away from the continent throughout the invasion and rule of the foreign masters─ Africa ’s finest young brains.
With a rural child giving birth to a child in Africa , nature finds itself in a bottomless distress for nurture. And a lot more rural girls, naked girls, who have no new life yet screaming on their own backs for dry milk from the deflated breasts of hungry mothers, either soon turn out to be teenage mothers or carriers and transmitters of expensive infections after their first year in the junior secondary school.
A great number of these girls, who do not know where their next meal will come from, have nowhere to turn. They are inspired by severe economic pains at home and in the rural streets to migrate to the choked cities where they will be compelled by survival instinct to grab and accept anything to remain alive. That is where and when the scary side of life stares at them without mercy. And in their reaction, they make decisions that are bound to deform their once-promising lives beyond recognition forever. In every environment that is physically polluted, moral pollution is an inseparable close-door neighbour. Congested cities in developing Africa are the worst learning institutions that female school dropouts can attend with degrees ranging from a variety of deformities to premature deaths.
The fingers of many girls in Africa are stained with bloods of unborn babies as an unwanted pregnancy and a career dream in the midst of prolonged hunger cannot share the same body and mind. Alarmingly, some girls do not even remember the number of shallow graves they have dug in desperation with their bare hands as they tried to lay to rest idle babies who had done no wrong except turning and kicking inside their mothers’ young wombs. Normally, it is through late confessions by the tearful guilty young mothers that the graves of priceless lives (which never were) finally are uncovered.
In Africa where more boys complete school than girls, girls who naturally learn faster than boys rather suffer raw deal as the very things that frown at teenage pregnancy and other forms of moral rot are the same things that encourage them. We claim we abhor poverty, crime and violence in Africa , yet we ripple our own peace and stability by stirring still waters. We by ourselves propagate the very things that overturn our hopes into nightmares. African girls, owing to African-made factors, endure more adventures that distance them from the same opportunities that guarantee a secure future for the boys.
Aware and expectant of the fortunes and dignity that lie ahead for their male counterparts, an average pregnant rural virgin in Africa ends up quickly being swallowed up in an extremely poor self-esteem and self-pity. Standing miserably far outside the educational circle, an academically dislodged African girl with an extra burden to shoulder and carry all alone weeps for missing the early train that leads to life. She is incapable of looking a better-positioned boy straight in the eye in any public conversation. Drowned in early tragedies, her talents may lie buried forever under a towering desert dune or in an endless stretch of a deep sea of unending woes.
There are real wild animals that keep girls at home away from school. We have in Africa untamed beasts in our educational systems, working tirelessly to ensure that girls who are in school do not last up to the top of the academic ladder. During my interactions in 2010 with some rural girls in northern Ghana where the HIV prevalence rate still commands worship from a disturbing height, I observed that that hunger was one of the topmost reasons many girls had abandoned their books for early sexual encounters that would fetch them food.
It is worrying that rural-poor girls in their search for well-deserved three square meals a day would have to pay for those meals with at least three sexual encounters a day with men, some of whom are twice the age of their fathers. For such girls, the more they unavoidably are hungry, the more they must avail themselves of the waiting arms of sexually aflame men. And what is more worrying is the fact that some of the men who carry Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) demand raw or unprotected sex with the unsuspecting hungry poor girls. Rural hunger, one may safely conclude, is strengthening the HIV/AIDS whip and hepatitis scourge in underdeveloped and developing Africa .
HIV/AIDS is spreading fast in rural communities like a dry-season wild fire due to the same chronic hunger and malnutrition that threaten education. In the Monday 1st November 2010 edition of the Daily Dispatch, I gave a detailed news report on how hunger had been diligently recruiting young prostitutes in the rural Upper East Region of Ghana. It is captioned “POVERTY EXPOSES MORE RURAL GIRLS AND WOMEN TO HIV/AIDS” on page 5. The details are there. Even though the World Food Programme responded after the publication by providing 2000 HIV-infected persons in the region with a variety of food stuffs, the situation still is not any better as I speak. Grippingly, my interaction with the Upper East Regional President of the National Association of People Living with AIDS (NAPLAS), Mrs. Teni Ayuepaadu, confirmed that the youngest member of the association in the region was a two-and a-half-year-old girl, not a boy. And again, the oldest member, according to Mrs. Ramatu Abdullai (Upper East Regional President of the Women’s Wing of NAPLAS), was a 72-year-old woman, not a man.
Mr. Victor Nti-Berkoh, 57-year-old President of Yinepanya, another HIV/AIDS patients’ support group in the region’s capital, told me that four of the five HIV-positive patients who committed suicide as a result of stigma, discrimination, rejection and depression, in the capital between 2002 and 2010 were women. Two women, 24 and 35 years of age, owing to the same reasons died mysteriously at Chuchuliga in the same region. Mrs Ayuepaadu told me that the 35-year-old infected woman died, leaving two girls behind, after stigmatisation cut her off from public access to treatment.
After her death, one of her daughters got married when she was only about 16 years, an average basic-school final-year age in Ghana, and today she has two children whose future just might be a sour repeat. Mrs. Ayuepadu is in the Upper East and she is reachable to anyone to confirm more incredible realities for anyone in doubt. Through needless hunger in rural Africa , HIV/AIDS is spreading and having a backbreaking toll on communities and economies. And the vulnerable, particularly girls and women, pay to possess the dreaded disease with their education, future and dear lives. If you had also read the feature I wrote, entitled “Hunger in a Food Store” in the Daily Dispatch, you would have by this flashback been reminded by now of how hunger is raiding, colonising, misgoverning, embarrassing and harassing households in underdeveloped and developing Africa, and how it is recruiting a formidable army of robbers and criminal pilots in the gutters we call streets.
There are rural communities across the face of
When hunger sets in, education is only fit for the dustbin. Scores of school-going children go hungry and naturally cannot concentrate with empty stomachs in a learning environment. In seeking lasting solution to the daily misery of hunger that confronts them at home and at school, the young learners resort to all sorts of engagements that are harmful to their education, health and future. The same negative consequences do not affect them alone. They affect the continent as well.
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All this while, the boy, who slept several hours before the girl the previous night, is still snoring and skipping from one terrible dream into another. When he finally gets up, maybe he will only do the occasional emptying of an overflowing dustbin after rubbing his eyes before leaving for school with a stomach filled with the food that the girl feverishly had prepared before dawn. When they return from school, there is a lot more for the girl to do at home than there is for the boy.
She continues to do this, doing even more at weekends, until her father announces his desire to give her in marriage to an impatient man who is old enough to be her grandfather. Already, the burden of the house chores was responsible for her abysmal performance at school; and now, a girl-child marriage, to which she cannot say no, has come to paint the future bleaker. Her father will give her out in exchange for cows.
When the cows are sold, the money greases the boy’s palms to grab the academic ladder more firmly and climb higher. Some of the money goes into emptying bottles of beer with father’s good-weather friends. Her mother can say or do absolutely nothing. It is the way of life in the community. She, too, was brought up that way. She must think and behave that way, too. By the time the highly favoured boy is becoming a graduate, the girl (who was denied the necessary push) is expecting her fourth malnourished child outside the four walls of her school. The boys always will be heads because they always are ahead. Boys are the main business in those communities; girls are the capital investment that goes into the setting up and expansion of the boys’ future.
On another reason why some African communities still practise child bride, Esther Mwangi, an essayist in
She adds: “In a number of Kenyan communities, it is girls who spend more time on household chores than boys, leaving them with very little time to study at home. In case a family member falls sick, girls drop out of school to look after the sick relative.”
Even worse than that is the iron link between girl-child education and the scourge of HIV/AIDs in rural
In
Again in
The treatment of widows is as varied as the various communities in Ghana. Some widows are confined and starved for a number of days that are too long to be true; yet it is real. Whilst in the tight cage, one person on one side splashes cold water at her naked body from a bucket whilst another person follows the splash from the other side this time with hot water from a different bucket.
They continue to splash until she says she was behind her husband’s death. Even if everyone knows that the man committed direct or indirect suicide, she still must go through that horror to prove her innocence. What a continent! Inescapably, she dies out of the torture and the conclusion is drawn that she knew about her husband’s death. Her shameful death ignites public mockery on her girl child (who is now an orphan) in the school. This is an undesirable crunch of a turning point for her children. Her boy child is branded “son of a bitch’. And her schoolgirl is tagged “daughter of a witch”.
To fend for their very selves and to avoid further public ridicule, they kiss school goodbye and join the singing bands in the streets. But for the pro-widow campaign by a lonely warrior like Madam Betty Ayagiba, leader of the Widows and Orphans Movement in Ghana’s Upper East Region, and with support from committed stakeholders, the world of widows and that of the orphans, too, could have exploded by now. How can the MDGs see the light of day in the unreserved darkness of savage customs?
Although man has become a regular guest in Space and the nations of the world have advanced into the 21st century with awesome supremacy and unquestionable authority, some communities in
In fact, the great book makes it clear that the girl could not have come into being without the boy. The boy arrived on the planet ahead of the girl for how long only God knows. Out of his deep sleep came her magnificent creation. When children are told the creation story, psychologically they get the message that the girl is the boy’s second rate. Out of the boy was the girl made. She was not part of God’s original plan. The boy was. And not until the boy was lonely that God thought the girl was necessary. So God introduced the girl to fill the emptiness in the boy. She is a stranger, a companion who should stand behind the boy, not beside him. She is an instrument for the boy’s mission on earth.
She, therefore, must not initiate; she must suggest. She must not decide; she must comply. She must not lead; she must follow. In some communities, she must not provide; she must depend. She is an alien in a man’s world no matter how close and how long she lives in a man’s world. She did not merit the taste of life; the boy virtually rallied with his own emotion to demand her existence out of nonexistence.
As a matter of fact, some believe the boy is the gap between God and the girl. In some communities, the girl is seen as useful idiots. The sledgehammer that can shatter that strong traditional view in Africa is not yet made. The blacksmith is probably not yet born. The African fathers seem to have over the years orally adopted the Bible as a backing document to favour the boy against the girl. How wrong they are! Every woman was an already-existing man that God decided to change (upon Adam’s withdrawal syndrome) into a form that would balance her own form with the form in which the man was made. The African fathers seem to have ignored the fact that the same book only says the girl must be submissive; it does not say she must be illiterate.
Physically and historically the boy may dominate, men and women have the same intellectual ability and destiny. That is why it is injustice to keep girls out of school. That is social robbery. And perpetrators should be brought to book for robbing girls of their books. Timothy, a young admirer of Paul the Apostle, was taught the Scripture by his mother, who must have been learned.
In some parts of Africa, when a woman gives birth to a girl, the man who owns the baby is seen as a weakling. Baby boys are signs of strength. A man whose children are all girls, disturbed though, can only be sure of harvesting farm-size cattle at last when men of the tradition knock on his door to buy the best he could show that he, too, was a man. Some communities are so unwelcoming towards the girl-child that they find her birth as a boring arrival of a loathsome creature.
In the same communities, deafening cheers great the birth of a boy. There, a man who makes his wife to produce male twins is a man with a lot of strength. Within the circle of his friends, he commands a lot of respect. In fact, he is envied. On the other hand, it is double slaps in the bare face of a man whose wife breeds twins that will grow up to answer to another man’s surname. That is a generally accepted discrimination for you in the eyes of a blind tradition. Maybe through thorough education, such communities would accept the dictates of change after being told in the frankest terms the fact that the days of ancient wars and primitive farming methods (when victory and bumper harvest mostly favoured men-dominated kingdom) are over.
Research conducted in 2004 by Eileen Kane, who established the first Department of Anthropology in
Concluding from what researchers say and as far as I know, attending school in
James Mwangi, an inspector of primary schools in
Mary Gathoni, 15, in that country had this experience: “I had this rare chance of going back to school when education was made free. However, my dreams were cut short when my parents decided to marry me off to their creditor without my consent. When I tried to resist, they threatened me with death”, she says amid sobs.
When I travelled by road from Ghana to Nigeria in November, last year, to visit my mother in Lagos, I met some of the many African girls whose potentials are dying and decaying within them every hour that passes. A 14-year-old Yoruba girl, Funke Babasola, who comes from Ado Ekiti in south-western Nigeria but lives at Gowon Estates in Egbeda, a community in Lagos, told me (almost in tears) how predictable hunger, elephantine house chores and highly unstable electricity had rendered useless her early dream to be a pilot.
Funke is a common hawker in Lagos streets, piloting oranges for those who can wait to buy amid the razzmatazz of the busy city. She is one of the many trafficked girls who are busy hawking and bearing fatherless children in African streets and villages. Ironically, Africans do not love practical poverty; but things that beckon poverty are the very things we proudly indulge in. A hunter who carries home an ant-infested bundle of firewood should not be surprised if lizards begin to pay him visits because he who shares the same bed with a dog wakes up with fleas.
I have gone through the borders along
Remembering the solemn fact that these girls ought to be competing at school as it should, and not in the street as it is, one is abandoned in sheer pity at the extreme weight of the economic gravity that has continued to suppress upward-aiming rural Africans. The world may have to add some “injury time” to the stipulated period of the MDGs just to favour
Esther Mwangi writes further about the situation in
Liberia’s Nobel winner Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, Kenya’s late Nobel laureate Wangari Maathai, Nigeria’s Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Ghana’s Ama Ata Aidoo and other great African women, who rose from underprivileged roots in Africa, are monumental indicators that show how far girls can travel if given the same chance as boys. Great women in Africa who have managed to rise to global prominence are tangible testimonies that
Africa has fought and won the independence battle with the foreign masters. It has been more than half a century that the freedom war ended in
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